dishonesty

it's normal
everyone does it
you can't do everything
you can't change everyone
it's none of your business
it's better than... (dropping a bomb)
you'll only make things worse for yourself
you've done worse things than that yourself
don't rock the boat

good answers...???

... it shouldn't be (and only is because we let it)
... they shouldn't (and only do because we let them)
... but you might be able to do something
... but you don't have to 'change' yourself
... if we made more things our business they might not happen at all
...and worse than not doing it
...probably
... and should be judged for them (if I don't do so myself)
... I hate this boat